I've found the clear path is to accept things as they are and to care less about other people, society in general and pay more attention to living a fulfilling life for *myself*.
Everyone has their own path and we all end up in the same place, dead.
I have had some bitter moments in life before and those were directly related to the pain I was going thru at the time and once the pain was gone so was the bitterness..
Some haven't learned, myself included for many years, to care less about the social rejections they've experienced, as well as the betrayals and inequities.
These responses, and other similar comments I have heard from patients, divide unevenly into two groups: Most of these men and women, many of whom have responded anonymously, state plainly that all of the people they have dated are miserable human beings. I don’t mean, can we believe that all men are rotten human beings, the kind of thing you would find in a cesspool. Probably no generalization about men and women, favorable or unfavorable, would be entirely accurate.
“Men HATE and FEAR confident women.” “Men only want beauty queens.” “All men want is sex,” (this from a 60-year-old woman,) “Women just want a meal-ticket,” “Women like to ridicule men and make them feel small.” “I have been internet dating for 8 years. There are decent men and women who behave decently.
Many of the people we know seem to fit comfortably in partnerships that do not require one person to be berated or belittled by the other.
What I mean is, can we believe that this woman is really telling us what under cesspool-type conditions?
Those of collaborative spirit rather than dominant spirit then feel further rejection unless they mold themselves to society's norms and standards.A grownup woman accepts that life does not always go her way. She marinates in her victimhood and anger, making most anyone who crosses her path pay for her disappointment.(Especially the men.)Not coincidentally, The Bitter Woman constantly meets bad men who piss her off. ", but she will always get to "He’s a total asshole." When it ends (and it always does), she is even more convinced that all men are jerks.How women who are dating over 40 can recognize the Bitter Woman Femi Type and avoid becoming it In an effort to help you understand the man side of this midlife dating experience, I’ve introduced you to The Princess, The 18 Year Old, The Scaredy Cat and The Wow-Me Woman: all Femi Types* that send good men running.Today I’m going to talk about perhaps the most challenging of all Femi Types: The Bitter Woman.