You can use those topics to loosen up the atmosphere, to make her smile and to make her horny.
With some girls you’ll never talk about anything else than sex positions and inappropriate jokes.
Perhaps the both of you have had the same experience and this will bring you closer together. This is something that will get her to open up to you and let down her guard.
Knowing her biggest fear means you can further protect her and know her better emotionally. Most people have places they wish they could live, but they never have the chance to actually live there.
If you had to give me a nickname right now on the spot, what would it be? Do you think it’s possible that we met in a previous life?
How would you describe me to someone who doesn’t know me?
If you didn’t have to worry about money or a job, where would you live in the world? What was the last book that you got so absorbed in that you couldn’t put it down?
You only get 3 words to describe yourself – what are they? Which is better to listen to – your heart or your brain?